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1, the state of mind to be relaxed and happy
To communicate with your girlfriend is not a test, not to mention a torture chamber, you must maintain a relaxed and happy state of mind. The emotional atmosphere is more important than the content of the chat, so that she can feel your happiness.
This will allow her to be infected by you and gradually relax. In a relaxed and happy atmosphere, the two of them can communicate in a good way.
2, care about your girlfriend
The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation. The scope of concern is not limited to any aspect, eating and sleeping, work life, learning and perception can be.
Of course, the frequency should be controlled, not like chanting, excessive will be annoying. Especially for her emotions to care a lot, she is happy when she is happy with her, she must be good comfort when she is sad.
Let her in the communication with you, feel your concern for her, your feelings will warm up more quickly.
3、Pitch your preferences
Don't just talk about your preferences, be sure to pay attention to her preferences. From what she likes to start talking, which requires you to spend more time in your spare time to make up for it.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get the best out of your own home. If you are interested in what she likes, she will be interested in sharing her feelings with you.
Her views on things can also tell how your three views are. You can find confidence in what you are good at, so let your girlfriend speak freely in what she is good at, and you just have to be her little fanboy.
4、Find common topics
Of course, only talk about her also can not, to find more common topics between the two people. This process requires a little patience, do not have a different opinion is difficult to accept.
People and people are two separate individuals, want to be perfectly integrated together because of feelings, it is impossible. Only when you are patient in your search and finally find more and more common topics will you have the feeling that you hate each other.
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